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We make our newsletter brief, so you can probably read it all right now! Don't forget to send us your seduction questions for future editions of the newsletter!

What's in this newsletter:

  • Two Dating Questions, answered by Ron Louis and David Copeland
  • One "Rule" from the book "The Rules for Getting Laid"
  • A brief update on what Louis and Copeland are up to
  • Info on how to send us questions, unsubscribe, etc.

Dear Dating gurus,

I want to date hot young women, but always fail. I'm 35, and would love to sleep with girls I see on campus (I live in a college town). I am clueless, what should I do?


David: Pay attention, all you horny guys who want to date younger women; this is for you. There are some simple secrets that you must know.

Ron: Ah, the younger woman...the much sought-after babe. But if you are 35+, women in their early 20s would never want you, right? Wrong!

David: First, you must realize that many younger women are more attracted to older men than they are to those drones their own age. They want someone who is sensitive, mature, and experienced. In case you didn't notice, that's you, bucko!

Ron: So you want to find those 20 year olds who want an older man. Don't blow it by trying to be "hip" like the guys her age. You'll just look like an idiot with your too-big pants and your hat on backwards. At the same time, don't draw attention to her comparative youth. The worst is to lecture her about how you were when you were her age, and what you have learned. If women your age don't care, why should she?

David: Create experiences that she normally wouldn't have-a date off-campus, a nice restaurant, or a drive in the country. Avoiding being with her in places her peers will likely be-it will be uncomfortable for her and you.

Ron: To get sex with younger women, you must convince yourself that your age is a benefit. Some girls will reject you because of it, but others will sleep with you because of it, too. So muster up the courage to ask out that beautiful 20-year-old. She may well be the girl for you.

Dear Guys,

I'm a divorced father of two kids, in my mid-40s and just now back on the dating scene after being married for 15 years. How do I get over these disadvantages so I can get back into dating?

Confused Dad

Ron: You're actually much better off than you think. Right now you think you have all these disadvantages-you're too old, you're out of practice, you have kids, and so on.

David: But those aren't minuses-they're plusses, if you play your cards right.

Ron: The key for you is to start seeing your disadvantages as advantages. You're not just divorced-you've proven your ability to commit, over a fifteen year period! Women love that! You have kids-a lot of women you will date have them too. By being a good father, you are more attractive to these women then guys who are unproven in relationships and with families.

David: The bottom line is, a lot of women out there are looking for a guy like you-a mature, proven quantity who can keep together a long-term relationship and is good with children. Your main problem is that you believe that all these factors are work against you when actually they work for you.

Ron: Of course, they won't work for you with all women. It is true, that with some women, being older, divorced and with kids will be a reason to run. But don't hide your past-flaunt it! It can work for you, if you let it.


We love this book, and we love the tape series that goes with it. Here's a sample from the book ( links follow):

1. Make her feel special, and she'll give you sex

If you are like us, you've listened when women have told you that they wanted equality, and wanted to be treated the same way men are treated. What they didn't tell you, because they didn't know it, was that they want to be treated the way they imagine men are treated. In point of fact, many women labor under the delusion that men's lives are really easy and that anything a man wants is automatically handed to him, usually by a woman. As guys, we understand that life is rough and no one is going out of their way to protect us or make it easy for us. So when women told you they wanted equality and you said to yourself, "Okay, I'll treat you like any other guy," you probably noticed that when you did so, they didn't put out for you. The bottom line is that, no matter what a woman says, you have got to make her feel special if you want sex. You have got to do the work, find out what things make her feel like a princess in a fairy tale, and then do those things.

To seduce a woman, you must take her into another world, a special world where only the two of you exist, a romantic world, a poetic world. Sometimes this happens automatically with a woman: if you've ever fallen in love, you remember what it's like to feel like you are the only two people who've ever existed. You probably also remembered that, in that state, she really wanted sex. A lot. If you haven't ever felt that, don't despair-by following these simple guidelines, you can learn to create those special feelings. It's your responsibility, if you want to get laid. So how do you do it?

- Keep on the lookout for romantic ideas or situations. You can train your mind to always be looking for ways that little romantic moments can be created. The other day a friend of ours was at a Chinese restaurant, and got the fortune "Take the next opportunity you see-it will be wonderful" in his fortune cookie. Seeing an attractive woman sitting alone, he wrote his name and phone number on the back of the fortune, and as he left stopped at her table and said "you look lonely here...perhaps this fortune will cheer you up. By the way, I think you look beautiful." She smiled and accepted the fortune and he smiled and left. Two days later she called him and they now have a date planned.

This effortless introduction worked because it created a small, special moment in her otherwise busy, stressful day. He was appreciating her. He was doing something romantic. You can tell if an idea is romantic by asking yourself, "would a woman look back on it as incredibly special?" Our friend knew that the fortune cookie was a tale a woman would gladly tell about how she met her boyfriend. So it was romantic, made her feel special, and it worked.

- Look like you put thought into it. Women feel special, just like anybody does, if they think someone has done some preparation just for them. Cooking a meal, wrapping a little present, or hand-making a card for her will all make her feel like you are sitting around thinking of ways to delight her. The key here is to do things that give the appearance that you are thinking of her, even if you are not. When you do things to make her feel special and appreciated it will increase her desire to put out for you.

- Do something special and "out of the ordinary." Don't take a woman to the same place you'd go with buddies if you want sex. Take her someplace out of the ordinary. A river front cafe in a nearby small town, a walk in the woods where you've previously and secretly stashed a bottle of champagne, two glasses and a blanket you can "discover" together are all examples of "out of the ordinary" events. Even art films (if she likes that kind of thing) or museums can be out-of-the-ordinary events. You can be an "out of the ordinary" man if you know some love poetry by heart. That will make her feel very special.

- Focus on the details. Women want the "little things," so you should make sure every little thing is right when you are seducing a woman. This means flowers, new candles just lit for the first time, clean linens, the works. Everything is clean, nothing is sloppy. Romance is in the details, and you must have them right in order to succeed. Just as a businessman is always looking for new situations that can make money, a "man's man" is always looking for new situations that can create romantic feelings. If you take on this practice you'll make her feel special, and you will get laid.

To see "The Rules For Getting Laid" on, click here.

To see the tape series, click here. We suggest you get these great products!


Ron Louis and David Copeland are currently busily promoting their new book, "How to Succeed With MEN" (it's a book on dating for women). They will be appearing on the TV Show "Woman to Woman" (What kind of a title is that?) on CBS TV in Los Angeles on February 3, and doing a book signing at Borders on La Ceigna Blvd across from the Beverly Hills Mall at 7pm that evening. Come see us if you are in the area! You can find out more about this book at


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